I Won’t Sacrifice My Last Good Years Because My Son Refuses to Grow Up

There’s this unspoken rule that parents should keep giving forever, even when their own dreams are slipping away. You sacrifice for years, telling yourself it’s temporary, that someday you’ll finally do that one thing you’ve always wanted. Then that day comes, and suddenly you’re selfish for not handing everything over to an adult child who thinks your retirement is their backup plan.